Monday, September 7, 2009

my deliciously fabulous weekend

tom came home for the weekend!! yay!! i feel like when he leaves i run all week long on my "love tank" and by the time the weekend comes i'm about running on empty. i see tom, he hugs me so tight and suddenly i feel refueled and ready to take on the world, fight the mafias, and solve all of the world's mysteries. that may be exaggerating a wee bit, but i really feel so energized and so happy!
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tom got to my house around 2 am because he had to work at the fresno vs. uc davis game. once he finally got out of there he got on the road and headed here. once he got here we talked and just simply being in his presence makes me feel so energized!! he got to sleep in our spare room - complete with tinkerbell and the three fairies from sleeping beauty painted on the walls surrounding the bed... haha so funny.
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sunday morning we went to oakdale 1st ward - my homeward - and it was so fun being there with him. i LOVE sitting next to tom in church. singing hymns, whispering our thoughts here and there, holding hands during prayers... oh my heart i love it. he is whoa awesome. after church we came back to my house and took a perfectly delightful sunday nap on the double recliner chair in the family room. we have deemed that chair "ours" because we sit in it everytime he's home. we decided we are going to steal it when we get married so we have a nice chair. don't tell my mom who took it when it goes missing. because it will go missing. and tom and i will love it. sorry mom!
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after our nap we went for a walk over to my grandparents house. i know they love the company and we love talkin with them. i've decided they are so full of simple wisdom. i love how great of an example of love they are. they honestly love each other with every fiber of their beings. they are best friends, buddies, and would do anything for each other. i hope tom and i can pattern our relationship after my grandparents. life will get difficult and challenging, it may not always be easy, but i truly hope we can always turn to each other through good times and bad and come out stronger because of it.



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tom and i went for a walk around the ranch. i showed him at least 15 different locations where my cousins and sisters and i had made "clubs". growing up my cousins and i would let our imaginations grow like weeds. we could take a spiderwebbed, dust covered pile of wood and transform it into an office complete with secret passageways, magical buttons, and a secret hideaway where no one else in the world existed anymore... cow troughs, tire sheds, cattle tracks, storage shops, "junk lane", it didn't even matter - they all were our playground and i cherish those free fun memories.
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that night we got in the hot tub and had such a great talks!! i love how tom and i can talk and talk for hours. we spend all day together, then talk for hours on the phone. that night had a really cool breeze so it was nice to just sit and relax in that hot water. nice? no. deliciously fabulous is a better description for it. it was so relaxing and happy fun. after the hot tub we got changed and then went and stargazed on the trampoline. that is something we have done together since day one. i love that time we have to connect after a long day. so we stargazed for a couple of hours, decided we were tired of swatting away mosquitos and more than a little bit cold so we went inside and went our separate ways and visited dreamland. nice.
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this is our "death glare at the distance between oakdale and fresno" face. i hate that he's so far away!! it's just an awkward distance where we can't visit eachother for the day.. you have to make a trip out of it. however! i am VERY glad that it is only two hours and not more. phewee!! something i learned this weekend: love rocks. it totally does. it makes sad people happy. grumpy people more pleasant. sick people better. it really is the best feeling in the entire universe. thank goodness, i'm not on empty in my love tank anymore. i'm full to the brim. thanks tom! bows!! you the best!!

5 comments:

  1. You know, I have never met this boy you call Tom. I have talked to him a few times online, but I know he is perfect for you! Remember when you came to visit, right before you two started dating and you gave me the run down of what you wanted your soul mate to be like, and what you wanted your marriage to be like? Well, I am positive that you are happy enough to make your wish come true! I am so happy for you!

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  2. i have been meaning to tell you that Gary's cousin's husband is a Physical therapist in Fresno. Isn't that what he is going into?? Anyways. l love your posts!!

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  3. amy- terry actually told me that at church on sunday! that is awesome! we'll have to chit chat it up with him sometime!!

    melly - i DO remember our conversation at your house that day. i remember wanting so desperately to find something similar to what you and marc have. i can remember my heart hurting a little bit from wanting and hoping for that so so much. and little did i know it was right there waiting to happen. what a totally wonderful feeling. so so grateful for it. yay

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  4. There is NO WAY I'm going to let you steal that chair away. Talmage and I had first claim to that chair as "ours" and we sit in it every General Conference.
    AND...when reading about the "clubs" we used to make...how were we NOT aware of the SPIDERS, SNAKES, MICE, RATS, ETC that called those wood piles and such HOME. We were crazy, but oh how much fun! Maybe those critters just didn't exist?

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  5. You are too cute! I love you perfectly in love you are!

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